If I went out with a magic lamp and told people to make a wish to improve something in their partners, I am sure that most men would dream of more intimacy and many women would beg for help in home. I certainly don’t have magic to fulfill those desires, but I could tell you that something as simple as a husband starting to dust the lamps in his house on a weekly basis can be magical in rekindling his partner’s sexual desires.
And it is that, a recent study on sexuality affirms that the less tension the woman feels for taking care of the house, the higher the level of sexual libido. If you are a man, you already know how to lighten the spark and if you are a woman, discover how to finally divide tasks at home.
Tell him about your new fantasy: Send him a text where you tell him that you will talk about something very pleasant . Explain to him that a tired woman doesn’t have the energy to play in bed, but imagine everything they would do if you were relaxed.
Dress in patience: No matter how much a man wants to be intimate, don’t think that in a single day she will wash the clothes, bathe the dog and cook. Like all changes, you have to go little by little. Ask him which task he wants to start with. And if he doesn’t know, teach him something simple to learn.
Never criticize him: Even if he doesn’t remove the dust from the tables or has washed a white shirt with dark towels, bite your tongue, but don’t tell him he doesn’t know Do nothing. Thank him and in a future task guide him. And while they’re cleaning, give them a wink or give them a knowing smile. Don’t forget to wear something sexy while you clean up, like short shorts or a slightly unbuttoned shirt.
Also, don’t talk about cleaning when he’s happily watching sports. Make a calendar where the tasks are exposed by days.
Recognizing that the supposed boredom in intimacy is actually an accumulated fatigue, is undoubtedly the best news that any “cold” couple can hear. Tell me how chores are divided at home and I’ll tell you how passionate their nights are.
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