column-by-dr.-nancy-alvarez:-how-many-orgasms-can-we-have?Column by Dr. Nancy Alvarez: How Many Orgasms Can We Have?

Interviews and surveys about how many orgasms you can have in a night of love have always led me to a sad conclusion: how bad we Latinos are, sexually speaking.

According to the conclusions I draw from these opinions, the majority of Latinos living in the US have boring, mechanical and poor sex. It is a pity. Only a few consider that more than 20 orgasms can be had in a sexual encounter.

It was previously believed that only a minimal number of women were multi-orgasmic, that is, with the ability to have many in a row. Today we know that every woman has that capacity. Whether she is or not, she depends on her partner to encourage her as soon as she begins to “come down,” to enter the resolution stage. By being sexually stimulated, shortly after the first, she makes the woman have one, two, three, forty if she wants, with something wonderful: the last one is so strong and pleasurable that it will be almost an experience of ecstasy.

Later, it was believed that men could not have more than one orgasm. It is now science that it can separate ejaculation from orgasm, with simple exercises. He can be multi-orgasmic like a woman, the only thing he must learn is to have an orgasm without ejaculating. This is achieved by acquiring control over the pubococcygeus muscle. He will make love all night without stopping, until he doesn’t want any more and then he ejaculates.

This topic is as old as humanity. In the East, the famous tantric sex is something that is practiced. It consists of learning to have multiple orgasms, among other things. They discovered, long before science, that the more times we reach out and stop, the stronger and more rewarding the final orgasm will be. They made sex an ecstatic, full experience, an art.

We, because of the Judea-Christian culture, are full of taboos towards sexuality. And this leads us to a very mechanical, homemade and routine sex. Be careful, men, if there’s one thing a woman hates, it’s monotonous sex. The man, because of his fear of losing his erection, tends to get straight to the point.

In addition to being satisfied much faster than women, he does not enjoy it and ends up being a very bad lover. Women want a lover with a slow hand, we adore gourmet sex, which is like a good dinner: slowly, gently and taking your time.

Most Hispanics have a lot to learn on the subject. We have confused practice with theory. Hispanic men, especially, practice a lot, but in theory, in knowledge about sex, they get zero if they give them a test. Without theory there can be no good practice. Sexuality is something that develops and is born with us. We set the limits ourselves. In sexual pleasure, the sky is the limit.

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