María Marín Column: Signs of hidden infidelity

When we talk about discovering infidelity on the part of a partner, we quickly think of finding a shirt stained with lipstick or impregnated with an unknown perfume, noticing strange behavior in front of the cell phone or noticing inexplicable schedules and departures.

But when none of the actions mentioned appear within the suspicious panorama, there are countless other behaviors that can confirm a love deception.

Generally, when you start to see “strange things” that make you think that your partner may have a lover, you will have already noticed that the relationship is not the same as before. And precisely how the relationship is going is the first indicator to consider.

1. It is not the same person: Little by little or suddenly you notice that he is moving away from you and for no apparent reason. They no longer talk with the same consistency or depth as before, you feel cold and they even go out less than before. In general, he no longer cares as much about your tastes and needs as he did before. You may even notice that he constantly changes his mood or appears to be too happy.
2. Spend more: Suddenly you start to notice extra charges on your credit card and not precisely because of the increase in the cost of living, such as restaurants and other types of outings that were not for you. And if the unfaithful person knows how to hide those expenses, observing that he is short of money lately, it can mean that he is investing in her new love; He cannot meet her monthly expenses and much less does he have the financial funds to please you, pamper you and surprise you with some detail.
3. It has changed intimately: Paying close attention to what happens in bed can be one of the clearest signs to discover infidelity. An increase in her sexual desire may be the result of the excitement caused by her lover, while a decrease in intimate acts may be the effect of the sexual pleasure she has found outside the home.

If the signs lead you to the conclusion that your partner is being unfaithful, it is best to talk to him or her. And if even presenting your evidence, he or the unfaithful person denies her behavior, it is time to evaluate the future of that bond, because without trust any relationship falls apart.

Your intuition will always be the most powerful signal.

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