By Maria Marin
13 Jul 2024, 11:18 AM EDT
I have two very good friends who were once good friends to each other… but they haven’t spoken to each other for two years. And all because of a silly thing that doesn’t make sense to tell!
Recently, I was at one of their houses and suddenly I took out my cell phone and said: “Hey, how about I give so-and-so a call so we can say hello?”, hoping to light the peace pipe. I should have known the answer: “Oh, no, please…! If she wants to call me one day, I’ll answer, but I’m not going to call her.”
I know that deep down they love each other, but neither of them is willing to give in!
If you’re distanced from someone and you wait for them to take the initiative to approach you, you might be waiting forever, because they’re probably waiting for you to do the same. So, who’s going to break the ice? Read through the following scenarios and if you identify with more than one, it’s time to give in!
1. When you feel that fixing the situation will bring you tranquility and peace of mind.
2. When you recognize that it was YOU who was NOT right, but your pride won’t let you get closer.
3. When you put the facts on a scale and you realize that what that person contributed to your life weighs more than what they took away.
4. When making peace is beneficial for both.
5. When several people have already told you that what happened does not merit destroying that friendship.
6. When you see that the person acted out of ignorance or selfishness, and not with the intention of harming you.
If you really care about this relationship, don’t hesitate to take that first step. If you’re not ready to pick up the phone, you can send a text, email, or reach out on Facebook or Instagram.
Life is too short and the universe is too big to suffer over silly things and keep us away from the beings who have brought joy to our lives. Reach out and let them twist your arm a little. You will see how your spirit comes out stronger from that stretch.
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